I am a little ✨ because I just had a convo with my son this morning about how and why highly competent people always get asked to do more (we get shit done welland fast, always) and how it's essential to learn to say no and establish boundaries fast. Our job is not to make life easier for every one else.
Cheers to summer and giving ourselves all the fun, grace and slack we deserve ❤️✨
Hi Charlene— no kidding; competence is rewarded with… more work (even by ourselves). The word “no” and boundaries or limits are key. For example, I write this from a semi- horizontal posit on my sofa, because I did some useful things today and now DING, it’s time for feet up! Happy summer, Inky!
I am a little ✨ because I just had a convo with my son this morning about how and why highly competent people always get asked to do more (we get shit done welland fast, always) and how it's essential to learn to say no and establish boundaries fast. Our job is not to make life easier for every one else.
Cheers to summer and giving ourselves all the fun, grace and slack we deserve ❤️✨
Hi Charlene— no kidding; competence is rewarded with… more work (even by ourselves). The word “no” and boundaries or limits are key. For example, I write this from a semi- horizontal posit on my sofa, because I did some useful things today and now DING, it’s time for feet up! Happy summer, Inky!
Exactly! Lis out there and not in here. Although it’s fun to step inside SubS and see what you’ve been up to M*S 💙
Life is everywhere: out there, on Substack, and very much inside my head! Thanks for reading, Dandy!
True true